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    Dealing With A ‘Somehow’ Uninterested Seller

    Love at first sight is equally true I the case of real estate. You see a property and instantly decide to get that property based on its design and location. However, developing an instant interest doesn’t mean that you can always get that property; the same scenario as that of a failed one-sided love affair.

    The question is that is there any way you can convince an uninterested seller to sell you the property you desire to achieve? Well, you need to keep in mind that the seller would absolutely right if he/she doesn’t intend to sell you the property for whatever the reason. They may be looking for you to come with the better purchasing terms for their benefit or they may not be willing to sell the property without making a deal for the full cash payment.

    With that said, it would be worth discussing some useful steps that you can take into consideration while trying to make a deal with the seller who is just not that into you.

    Offer the max you can

    After making offer followed by several counter offers, you must realize that you are still falling short of what the seller is expecting from you. In that case, you shouldn’t stick with the typical buyers’ tactics because it might have started to ruin the possibility of success for you. Thus, you should jump the max of what you can offer to the seller. The seller may still be unconvinced at that moment but they might call you back after a few days.

    Sometimes, it’s better to move on

    If seller is absolutely not interested in selling the property to you, the best you can do is to move on. Although, it’s not that easy to forget about the home you have started to love and imagined living in, but sticking around uselessly and hoping for the seller to change their mind isn’t the right approach either. Furthermore, concentrating on an out-of-reach deal cannot be of any advantage because you might be missing on the other deals where sellers may be willing to accept your offer easily.

    Your experience should be a lesson

    Just because you have utmost desire to own a home and you are willing to pay any price for it doesn’t mean that you would be given the homeownership. Many times, things don’t go well and the deal goes through. In this situation, you need to learn about the factors that made the deal sour.

    Remember, it is absolutely necessary to learn about the things that didn’t go well in a deal. If you are able to figure it out, you are certainly going to succeed in the future.

    Don’t figure out the seller

    In case you are unable to convince the seller for what you have to offer, you should never try to figure out the seller. There could be a lot of things that may be occupying the seller’s head. They may not be willing to negotiate over the price. Or they might not be intending to even the sell the property.

    Instead, you should figure yourself out. Remember, accusing or blaming the seller for ruining the deal wouldn’t help you because you will not be seeing your mistake that probably caused failure.