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Are you strong and secure, anxious, or avoidant?

These 10 Questions Can Determine Your Romantic Attachment Style

Quiz: What's Your Romantic Attachment Style?

This Quiz Will Reveal Your Romantic Attachment Style

"I don’t really worry about my significant other leaving me."

"I worry that my significant other doesn’t love me as much as I love them."

"I’ve scared off partners or potential partners by trying to get too close, too fast."

"I have a hard time asking my significant other for help or comfort."

"I get scared of letting my significant other know my deepest feelings."

"I crave emotional closeness in a relationship, but I often find myself pulling back."

"I feel happy, loved, and totally secure in my relationship."

You are confident in yourself and confident in your relationships. You enjoy spending time with your partner and feel comfortable expressing yourself to them, but you are also fine spending time apart and doing your own thing. You don't fret about being alone or scaring people off, and you're comfortable forging deep connections with other people.

Secure attachment style

You desire deep connections with others, but sometimes worry that they don't want the same from you. You worry a lot about being alone, and you get anxious if you can't be with your romantic partners when you want to. You seek external validation, and you have a hard time accepting yourself if you don't think that others accept you.

Anxious-preoccupied attachment style

You're pretty comfortable with yourself, but you have a hard time letting other people in. You really value your independence and don't like to rely on anyone but yourself. You don't deal well with confrontation and you struggle with making yourself vulnerable. Sometimes you think relationships aren't worth the trouble.

Dismissive-avoidant attachment style

You have many conflicting feelings within you. You desire deep connections with others, but when you experience such a connection, it makes you feel uncomfortable and even a little scared. You have trouble trusting other people, because even though you love the idea of being in a secure relationship, you've been hurt when you've let your guard down before. You can run hot-and-cold in relationships because you're not sure what you want.

Fearful-avoidant attachment style

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These 10 Questions Can Determine Your Romantic Attachment Style

For each of the statements below, move the scale marker to indicate if how much you agree or disagree with it. If you're not currently in a relationship or have never been in a relationship, think about how you have acted in previous relationships or how you would act in a future one.

These 10 Questions Can Determine Your Romantic Attachment Style

For each of the statements below, move the scale marker to indicate if how much you agree or disagree with it. If you're not currently in a relationship or have never been in a relationship, think about how you have acted in previous relationships or how you would act in a future one.

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